My Notes
Introduction
Majority fail in making habits because they try to make changes the wrong way.
It is easy to get obssessed with the result.
Never overestimate the importance of one defining moment and underestimate the value of making better decisions on a daily basis.
Don’t focus on the destination. Focus on the path.
Habits
Pattern of every habit:
- Reminder ( trigger )
- Routine ( the action itself )
- Reward ( the benefit )
A good reminder makes it easier for you to start your habit by encoding your new behavior in something that you already do, rather than relying on getting motivated.
Set a visible reminder and link your new habit with your current behavior.
Reminders are specific to you and your habit.
Things that you do everyday without fail, even unconsciously.
“Make it so easy you can’t say no” - Leo Babauta
start small
consistency is key
Reward yourself, atleast with positive self-talk.
Make habits that are important to you, not what you are told.
New Identity
visualize yourself being the better you.
Grow more confident in your new identity by getting approval from others.
All your actions is a reflection of who you think you are. Change your image and you change your habits.
Motivation is unreliable
Define life-goals := tiny, daily behaviors that are repeated until success becomes inevitable.
“Plant the right seed in the right spot, it will grow without further coaxing…”
“Focusing on motivation as the key to habits is exactly wrong…”
“Pick the right small behavior and sequence it right.”
Don’t dive into the deep end and drown as the initial impetus fades.
Dream big, but start small.
Just Do it
The problem: We set deadlines, not schedules.
If we don’t achieve, we feel like failure - even if we improved.
It’s not about always doing your best work, it’s about doing the best you can on a consistent basis.
Stop focusing on result. Focus on consistency.
Don’t refrain when the Muse sings to you. But don’t rely on them.
The focus is on doing the action, not achieving X goal by a certain date.
Keystone Habits
A keystone habit is a behavior that naturally pulls the rest of your life in order.
Eg: Fitness, Work out, morning run, daily meditation.
Get back on track (quickly)
Best strategy isn’t to avoid failure, it’s to plan for it.
Must have a plan to get back on track before you get off track.
Be specific about your habits. When, where, exactly how are you doing to do it?
Stick to your schedule, even in small ways.
This will prove to yourself that you can achieve even when the circumstances are not favorable.
Have a person as an incentive.
Design your environment for success.
Overcome Bad Habits ASAP
Bad habits are a way of dealing with stress and boredom.
Bad habits can’t be eliminated. They must be replaced.
Choose a substitute that provides a similar benefit.
Cut out as many triggers as possible.
Join forces with somebody.
Visualize yourself succeeding.
You lived without the bad habit before. If you could then, then you certainly can now.
Be aware of your bad habits.
It takes perseverance but it isn’t impossible.
Conclusion
- Knowledge is useless without action.
Footnotes
This post is a condensed form of the most essential ideas from the book “Transform Your Habits” by James Clear. My objective has been to ensure that a single read through this post will revive all the keystone ideas in the book, thus optimizing the time for reading yet another book.
My intention has been to propogate productivity. All copyright belongs to the owner and I hope he will understand the good nature of the work presented here.
As always, suggestions are welcome.
To infinity and beyond.
Basil | @itbwtsh
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